[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.cerpad.cz\/obdobi-vzdoru-a-jak-s-nim-pracovat\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.cerpad.cz\/obdobi-vzdoru-a-jak-s-nim-pracovat\/","headline":"Obdob\u00ed vzdoru a jak s n\u00edm pracovat","name":"Obdob\u00ed vzdoru a jak s n\u00edm pracovat","description":"Projde si t\u00edm t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d, d\u00edt\u011b vstoup\u00ed do tzv. obdob\u00ed vzdoru a n\u00e1m t\u00edm za\u010dne kru\u0161n\u00e9 obdob\u00ed, kdy se s\u00a0na\u0161\u00edm potomkem budeme velice t\u011b\u017eko domlouvat. Obvykle toto obdob\u00ed p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed okolo 2., 3. roku d\u00edt\u011bte a trv\u00e1 1 a\u017e 2 roky. U n\u011bkter\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed se m\u016f\u017ee projevovat v\u00fdrazn\u011bji, u n\u011bkter\u00fdch m\u00e9n\u011b v\u00fdrazn\u011bji, ale ve v\u00fdvojov\u00e9 ... <a title=\"Obdob\u00ed vzdoru a jak s n\u00edm pracovat\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cerpad.cz\/obdobi-vzdoru-a-jak-s-nim-pracovat\/\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Obdob\u00ed vzdoru a jak s n\u00edm pracovat<\/span><\/a>","datePublished":"2019-08-05","dateModified":"2023-05-03","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.cerpad.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.cerpad.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0c4621640b5c0734669aeb181ef77969b528487727344f28e734a206566ea0f1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0c4621640b5c0734669aeb181ef77969b528487727344f28e734a206566ea0f1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"cerpad.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.cerpad.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a354036_w3197_t1568539118.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.cerpad.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a354036_w3197_t1568539118.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.cerpad.cz\/obdobi-vzdoru-a-jak-s-nim-pracovat\/","about":["D\u011bti\r"],"wordCount":664,"articleBody":"Projde si t\u00edm t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d, d\u00edt\u011b vstoup\u00ed do tzv. obdob\u00ed vzdoru a n\u00e1m t\u00edm za\u010dne kru\u0161n\u00e9 obdob\u00ed, kdy se s\u00a0na\u0161\u00edm potomkem budeme velice t\u011b\u017eko domlouvat. Obvykle toto obdob\u00ed p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed okolo 2., 3. roku d\u00edt\u011bte a trv\u00e1 1 a\u017e 2 roky. U n\u011bkter\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed se m\u016f\u017ee projevovat v\u00fdrazn\u011bji, u n\u011bkter\u00fdch m\u00e9n\u011b v\u00fdrazn\u011bji, ale ve v\u00fdvojov\u00e9 f\u00e1zi d\u00edt\u011bte je to neodlu\u010diteln\u00e1 \u010d\u00e1st.Jak se takov\u00e9 obdob\u00ed vzdoru u d\u00edt\u011bte projevuje? To hodn\u00e9 a sladk\u00e9 d\u011b\u0165\u00e1tko, kter\u00e9 bylo do te\u010f tak mazliv\u00e9, cht\u011blo d\u011blat v\u0161e jen s\u00a0V\u00e1mi, se najednou osamostat\u0148uje a zkou\u0161\u00ed, kde jsou pomysln\u00e9 mantinely a hranice. Uk\u00e1zkov\u00e1 situace, kdy d\u00edt\u011b d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bco, co by d\u011blat nem\u011blo, Vy to d\u00edt\u011bti zak\u00e1\u017eete, d\u00edt\u011b se na V\u00e1s vyz\u00fdvav\u011b kouk\u00e1 a pokra\u010duje v\u00a0necht\u011bn\u00e9 aktivit\u011b. Jak bychom se v\u00a0takovou situaci m\u011bli zachovat?Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b doporu\u010dujeme v\u00a0za\u010d\u00e1tc\u00edch obdob\u00ed vzdoru, abyste zkou\u0161eli co nejv\u00edce vysv\u011btlovat a ukazovat. Ne na v\u0161echny d\u011bti to plat\u00ed, plat\u00ed to sp\u00ed\u0161e na naprostou men\u0161inu d\u011bt\u00ed, ale m\u016f\u017ee se st\u00e1t, \u017ee zrovna Va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b je to, kter\u00e9mu sta\u010d\u00ed n\u011bco vysv\u011btlit nebo uk\u00e1zat, pochop\u00ed to a nebude se s\u00a0V\u00e1mi cht\u00edt p\u0159\u00edt.Valn\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161ina d\u011bt\u00ed bude ale zkou\u0161et, kde jsou hranice, jak dalekou mohou zaj\u00edt a pro\u010d jim to vlastn\u011b zakazujeme. Na\u0161i potomkov\u00e9 teprve z\u00edsk\u00e1vaj\u00ed m\u00edsto ve sv\u011bt\u011b a cht\u011bj\u00ed si ho vydob\u00fdt, cht\u011bj\u00ed m\u00edt vlastn\u00ed slovo, cht\u011bj\u00ed ovliv\u0148ovat ud\u00e1losti a cht\u011bj\u00ed v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee o sob\u011b rozhoduj\u00ed sami.My ale v\u00edme, \u017ee tomu tak nen\u00ed. Mal\u00e9 d\u011bti v\u00a0takto n\u00edzk\u00e9m v\u011bku nev\u011bd\u00ed, co je spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 a co \u0161patn\u00e9, nedok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed odhadnout, jak\u00e9 n\u00e1sledky by mohla dan\u00e1 situace m\u00edt. Jde jim jen o to prosadit si svou. Od toho jsme tu ale my rodi\u010dov\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed bychom m\u011bli na\u0161im d\u011btem vysv\u011btlit a uk\u00e1zat, pro\u010d se n\u011bco d\u011bl\u00e1 takov\u00fdm a takov\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem nebo, pro\u010d se n\u011bco nesm\u00ed d\u011blat a co by se mohlo st\u00e1t, kdybychom to d\u011blali. Takhle bychom mohli pokra\u010dovat donekone\u010dna.D\u00edt\u011bti vysv\u011btlete, co by se mu mohlo st\u00e1t, uka\u017ete mu, pro\u010d nechcete, aby n\u011bjakou \u010dinnost d\u011blalo. D\u00edt\u011b m\u016f\u017eete vz\u00edt za ruku a zkusit odv\u00e9st. N\u011bkdy to pom\u016f\u017ee a ne\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed je za\u017eehn\u00e1no. N\u011bkdy se ale obdob\u00ed vzdoru uk\u00e1\u017ee v\u00a0cel\u00e9 sv\u00e9 kr\u00e1se a Vy mus\u00edte reagovat. D\u00edt\u011b se za\u010dne vztekat, pl\u00e1\u010de a po dobr\u00e9m s\u00a0V\u00e1mi neodejde.Tady p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed na \u0159adu trest. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed z\u00a0n\u00e1s by mohli tvrdit, \u017ee psychick\u00e9 ani fyzick\u00e9 tresty nejsou u takto mal\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed vhodn\u00e9, \u017ee se v\u0161e mus\u00ed zvl\u00e1dnout pouhou domluvou. My si ale nemysl\u00edme, \u017ee to v\u017edy sta\u010d\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b pot\u0159ebuje v\u011bd\u011bt, kde jsou hranice a mus\u00ed vid\u011bt, \u017ee zak\u00e1zan\u00e1 aktivita m\u00e1 n\u011bjak\u00fd n\u00e1sledek.\u201ePokud tady bude\u0161 rozhazovat hra\u010dky, ve\u010der se nebude\u0161 moct d\u00edvat na Tvou obl\u00edbenou poh\u00e1dku.\u201c Takov\u00fdto trest naprosto sta\u010d\u00ed, \u0159ekn\u011bte to, po\u010dkejte, jak d\u00edt\u011b zareaguje a pokud neuposlechne, odve\u010fte ho z\u00a0m\u00edstnosti, posa\u010fte ho na seda\u010dku, zopakujte potrest\u00e1n\u00ed a to ve\u010der tak\u00e9 dodr\u017ete.Nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem se rozhodnete sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b trestat, pokud ale n\u011bjak\u00fd trest vy\u0159knete, mus\u00edte ho dodr\u017eet.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.8\/5 - (5 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Obdob\u00ed vzdoru a jak s n\u00edm pracovat","item":"https:\/\/www.cerpad.cz\/obdobi-vzdoru-a-jak-s-nim-pracovat\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]